The below activities and traits listed makes me feel whether she has comfortably moved to a kid phase from a baby phase ,which i am certainly not ready to accept
Independent
She wants to know everything,do her chores all by herself, listed below are some of her activities which explains us how independent shez become
- wants to brush all by herself in the morning. doesn't want our help.
- no help for bathing. asks us to keep a bucket of water, then makes us to wait near the door. she measures the water temperature, if hot she adds cold water with hand shower, takes the soap and starts bathing herself. in the pretext of keeping the towel,i'll try to enter for which she firmly says 'amma towela anga vachudungo,neenga poengo'
- the testing time atleast for me is she selecting her own dress, amidst the plethora of cute dresses she'll select the one which i've earmarked for only feeding purpose, wears it with totally unmatching trousers\shorts\skirts. if i or paati raise our offence to it, we are done for the day
- even to drink water,ask us to lift her to water purifier, takes the glass fills her water and drinks it all by herself
- wants to switch on the television and dvd by her own. now she knows a bit of it too
- eating=at least in this, she allows others to feed beacuse she hates to eat. she prefers to stay hungry and became cranky than to eat
Inquisitive
Knows in and out of whatz happening at home
Me,Adhu and arvind purchased mangoes at Hyper city,
Paati on arriving at home asks 'where did you guys buy the mangoes ?at hypercity market or village supermarket?before i could answer, Adhu says 'paati naanga hypercityla vanginom'
This is just a small example of ever never ending talks and conversations at home. She notices everyones activities so keenly.look at her shaving her dad
Troublesome
Taking her to restaurants and supermarkets are a nightmare for us.
At the restuarant:
Time spent:45 minutes.normally Adhu doesn't like restaurant food . so shez well fed before we leave for her 'fish hotels'(this is how she normally refers restaurants as).
Today in the 45 minutes time, she asked us to take her for three susu's.She took the buttermilk served with spoon which was mostly spilled all over and kept on asking us when are we leaving. we ate fast and got out before she becomes too cranky
At the supermarket
picks whatever she likes,ensures that it gets billed, she checks for her items in the shopping cart every now and then,so we can hardly fool her.todays's 'Adhu's items' were
-1 blue brush, this is in addition to the three brushes she has
-3 wowie choclates
-3 packs of playdoughs
she has started to like icecreams. look at her licking her cornetto icecream
Boldness
Yesterday we took her to Garuda mall which has a nice playarea for kids. we were supposed to go to cubbon park but sudden rains spoiled our plans. she had a great time at the playarea,throwing balls at other kids and enjoying herself thoroughly. this is the same place which she refused to go seeing other kids some six months ago. she has indeed become very bold
Look at her enjoyment