Saturday, December 25, 2010

About Adhu-year end post by her Appa-certainy a very ocasional contributor

As the year draws to a close, i put on my thinking cap and draw upon my rather limited writing resources to pen a post on the year that went by...

In retrospect, it has been a year where our family fortunes have progressed little economically and quite a distance emotionally. It has been the "year of Adhu", and there is no doubt on that. That, she will continue to dominate our thoughts in the next coming years, is also a dead giveaway.

It is remarkable to note how a person’s mind can change from a free flying rascallous mode pre marriage to a doused orderly mode post marriage, and even more remarkably to a 'parental' mode post child birth.

Advitha has grown rapidly in size and stature to already become a person to whom we seek opinions before venturing into anything even remotely connected to her. Good to see that she has imbibed her high IQ from her sweet mother. It is for no other reason that i call her-Kutty abi. Hope she grows on to become a bigger Abi as well.

I can never forget the vigorous "Maataen" head nods for the smallest morsel of meticulously prepared food given by her mother. Nor can i forget the even more resolute follow-up done by her wily mother to complete the feed of the last mouthful of nutrition into the small one's belly. I can’t but wait to see the triumphant smile on Adhu's mother's face every time the onerous feeding task is completed... It is little drops that make the ocean.

School has cast a spell on Adhu, and a good one at that. How fast she outgrew our fears and her own demons of a new place away from the warmth of her home, is simply beyond me. Now school is an indelible part of her day and is her daily source of knowledge. Imagine our feelings, when we were asked to come over for her first Parent-Teacher meeting a few months back only to be bowled over by the little maidens list of complex accomplishments in her daily two hour tryst. No doubt that Advitha is the special student for all her play school teachers.



Well, chronologically, the year started with some of the family tensions being dispelled by the impact of the li’l one. The year progressed into being a really one off year where the family travel was mostly restricted to the trips to Chennai rather than the longer and much more cherished trips to the holiday spots across India. I cannot forget the travails of her mother in taking all possible precautions during our only holiday to the top of the world to ensure that nature’s best efforts of harm come a cropper against the determination of a mother.

Last but not the least, I can never forget the big help rendered by Abs mother day in and day out, to try and match the level of upkeep done by Abi on Adhu. Aunty has been pretty successful in keeping the kutty in good spirits mentally and physically.

As the year draws to its logical conclusion, my wish-list will always include that the terrific combination of mom-and-daughter continues to unfold in 2011 and also that 2011 gives all the chances to keep the good spirits in the family alive and bursting. CHEERS !!


super lady-some of my favourite snaps



Karthigaideepam

seeing me in saree ,Adhu who was in shorts urged me to put pavadai for her complete with accessories

Friday, December 24, 2010

Adhu's new cousin

Yes i am blessed with lil niece-Shwetha.....c u soon baby.....
Nikhil,Adhu and Shwetha -all adore the beauty and minds of our household

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

First gift from santa

Adhu received this first gift from santa claus today. A nice gift pack with couple of pencils,crayons,gum stick,scissors -all suitable for the lil lady.....

forgot to tell....she is very much interested in sticking,cutting,pasting,,,,,her ma'am told us specificially of this interest in the recent PTA

BTW, we got a crayon set which must have got swapped to another kid..fun na.....

Not so gud ones and lil gud one

  • Adhu has got a bad cold which the doc has diagnosed as 'laryngitis' (some lung infection). so we hear her coughing frequently and with some cough syrup it should go off in a few days
  • she is a lil underweight ,has to be 4 times her birthweight....which is about 12+ kgs (3.35*4). Though she looks healthy when compared with other kids we are given the mighty task of increasing the weight of 'the greatest fussy eater'....
  • now she outrightly says 'appa is her favourite even if not asked..........'the lil brat'.but today when i was not there she was awake,she started to cry and ask for me.....so that's the lil good one so far
Now all eyes are set on the baby my babhi is due to deliver.....eager to see the lil one
'the olli gal'













   

Saturday, December 18, 2010

PTA-2

This term's Parent teacher meet was held today
the ususal good comments about Adhu. Saranya ma'am ,Adhu's class teacher commented remarkably about
  • her memory power.she is only student to say all slokas by heart (saraswathi namsthubyam,asathoma sathgayama,guru brahma)
  • social skills which was stated as a weak point in last PTA has started improving.she is mingling with other kids
  • a very very soft baby,doesn't hurt other kids
sweet na :)we gifted her a gems pack on our way as a token gift.she was also given a small plant,charts made by her ,second report sheet

Monday, December 13, 2010

the 'aback' effect

i)Adhu taken to 'Total mall' in airport road,adjoining to the parking area appa tells adhu about the crowd waiting to see the shiva temple as 'Adhu paaru makkal ellam wait panranga to see god'......Adhu nods as tho she understands everything

The threesome returning after gruelling shopping for 2+ hours .on walking towards parking area Adhu asks appa 'Appa makkal ellam poitanga'.....

Amma appa taken aback......

ii)the three mad people driving in the car...amma and appa are engrossed in their usual discussion of restaurants.....Adhu suddenly asks 'appa carpet dry ayuducha ,terrace la errukka amma?'
appa and amma again in shock ....

Friday, December 10, 2010

snippets of intelligence

Scene 1
mummy's phone ringing,,,,,,
mummy searching for phone....
found the direction from where the sound is emanating but could not locate the phone
Adhu looking at me searching just runs to her cycle, opens the small box in her cyle ;brings the phone to me and says....'amma phone enga errukku.....indha'.....

Scene 2
amma and appa dicussing about milk tokens
Adhu immediately refers to the name 'suresh' who is the person supplying milk token

Scene 3
Adhu playing with her dada throughout the day....
when it is time to pick up amma from office leaves Adhu with grandmom saying 'Adhu amma kitta eru...i'll go pick up amma'...
Adhu the superattched gal to dad immediately understands and lets go appa to pick up amma
when amma arrives ...Adhu asks amma.' appa kuttitu vantala'(appa went and picked u)...
Appa and amma stuuned by the sharpness

Others
Adhu dear saying
'1-20'
'abcd....z
omeya rhyme (donno the rhyme but its fun to hear....omeya omeya where are u,her i am herei am,how do u do)
jack and jill
one two buckle my shoe

another bravo card

Adhu has another bravo card-this time for reciting slokas beautifully.....
now three certificates of her adores our halll
proud parents we are.......hehehehehe

slokas recited by her currently are
saraswathi namasthubyamm...(lov the 'babhathu' part in it)
asathoma sathgamaya.....
Om shanthi shanthi......


with her speaking skills at the heights the new challenge for us to cope up with her amazing understanding level of things....and she is so patient enough to make us understand what she wants.....

enjoying her lovely words is really an underestimation......

mummy's hectic exams are over  and so are the holidays for blogging...

Friday, November 12, 2010

sophisticated gal

Now a days she wants to wear ironed clothes to wear for her school....morning promptly she gets a dress from her cup board and gives to her dad for ironing

(mannnn...who teaches her all these things yaar....)

Then songs sung by her are
raghupathi raghava rajaram
madumeikkum kanne  
kadhal annukal (including newtoon,electon)
Pacha mala poove (she sings as pacha poovu.... incld the paras....)

Demanding Lady

Today the lil brat created a havoc before starting to school

You know,she wanted to wear her swim dress to school.....concincing her to wear another dress and the  ensuing activities ....please don't ask me......

Diwali at chennai

lots of rain
Adhu started to speak continuous sentences..'.paati naan kashmirila horse pathean ' was the show stopper sentence
went out with shyam and family to Hotel Aadithya
Nice time

Adhu's bravo card

Adhu's bravo cards from school....trust she would keep receiving accolades throughout.....
what more a parent needs :)

1. for saying opposites wonderfully
2. for saying farm animals

                                                          Dressed up for traditional day at school

                                                        Tomboy off to school

Adhu's second bday chronicles

Dresses got: light pink one ,blue coloured barbie frock and dark green frock

Oct 3rd
Off to deepa's bday party and a small cake cutting function at home. Adhu refused to wear any of the dresses for cake cutting


                                                       Adhu in her pretty green dress


                                                          At Deepa's bday party


                                                       Cake cutting party at home
Cake cutting at playschool
A small cake cutting party was organized at her playschool. Adhu wore her barbie dress and cut a sponge cake.



Chennai function
This was the highlight. Adhu's paternal grandparents made it as a mega gala evevt. About 150 people gathered and it turned out to be a mela event. In laws have arranged good food from saravana bhavan.overall a great event
Adhu,nikhil,Akashya,kavya
At chennai party

Adhu's first partent teacher meet

things told:
independent
smart
intellectual
but not getting along with freinds,,,independent to that extent



as usual late by 10 mts.went in by 9.10 mts....got to see some charts made by Adhu and pleasantly surprised

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

1-10 ,,,,odharu odharu,,,,pillayay chathurthi

Great lady says 1-10 now…..speaks loads in sentence format…
Now all geared up for Adhu’s bday party celebrations…..

One hitch though-shez getting more attached to her paati..wants to sleep with her only….can’t help it out…working moms are cursed this way…..

Other lil things
'Odharu odharu' with her dad-  and puja time- odharu odharu is the activity where she and her dad arranges properly the pillows,bed cover ,her blanket etc



the upcoming geek

Pillayar chathurthi







Sunday, September 19, 2010

Daughter's first award at school

Today lil Adhu got a star from school for her good performance. Making us feel really proud … way to go!!!Adhu dear!!!proud of our yet to turn 2 year old daughter


Everyday she says the rhymes…shows fish, boo boo crying,,,,up and down et al. she jus loves her school

(tried to click the star in her lil hands...now a days she comes with a star daily...:))

enjoying her playschool

 Adhu luves going to her school.she tries to say the happenings at school.friday she has to wear a uniform and casuals for other days


the first note from her playschool